We Create our own Reality….let that reality be bliss

The Creator gathered all of Creation and said,

‘I want to hide something from the humans until they are ready for it. It is realization that they create their own reality.’

The eagle said, ‘Give it to me. I will take it to the moon.’

The Creator said, ‘No. One day they will go there and find it.’

The salmon said, ‘I will bury it on the bottom of the ocean.’

The Creator said, ‘No. They will go there, too.’

The buffalo said, ‘I will bury it on the Great Plains.’

The Creator said, ‘They will cut into the skin of the earth and find it even there.’

Grandmother Mole, who lives in the breast of Mother Earth, and who has no physical eyes but sees with spiritual eyes, said,

Put it inside of them.’

And the Creator said. ‘it is done.’

Hopi Creation Story

The secrets of life live deep within our bodies. Yet, we have been taught to judge our bodies and to ignore and override the messages that our biological self tries to communicate with us. In many ways, our minds torture our bodies.  We think we know what is best. We feed our body toxic food, we steamroll over their natural cycles, we pump them with artificial drugs if there is pain, we follow beliefs and rules that crush our natural harmony. We look outside of ourselves to find the way, or we rely on the logical rational mind to navigate rather than inner knowing.



Many religions and spiritual systems deny the sacredness of the body, proclaiming its needs and desires to be the enemy of our spiritual pursuits, or being a gross and temporary distraction from the true mission to save our eternal soul. The body is often seen as an expendable container for the consciousness that lives on after we die. This attitude and these beliefs have made us suffer.

Now is the time to reclaim the divine power and to honour and trust this miraculous form we inhabit.

Thousands of years ago, people knew about the power of the body, and they knew about the jewel it contained, the Womb. We have lost its connection and it is time to remember it again. The Womb is our seat of knowledge. In Greece, this was called Gnosis and in Celtic traditions, it was called nous or cunning. Gnosis or nous happens when we have a direct connection to the source, which opens us to divine inspiration, moments of genius, and revelation. Gnosis is when knowledge becomes essence. This wisdom is available for everyone we just have to be open and receptive. We cannot learn our way to gnosis, but we can become open and receptive to it.

If we desired, we could download all the secrets of the universe in one moment, because we have the power to create our own reality. But for most people, the busy logical mind (which is heavily conditioned and programmed by beliefs and traumatic experiences and the loop of emotional wounds and dialogues it generates) prevents this pure receptivity by getting in the way of our natural intuitive wisdom and vast capabilities of primordial knowing.

As women, we have become so divorced from the womb, our primal centre of gravity, joy, creativity and soul connection, that we have forgotten who we are and how we could be. Instead, we try to compete on masculine terms and conditions to get by in the world of today. I have certainly experienced this throughout my life, especially working as a professional firefighter and fitness instructor. The need to be stronger than the men and completely ignore anything that was remotely viewed as feminine. This led to aggressive behavioural traits in many parts of my life and pushed down the intuitive voice within. The feminine lotus flowering within was certain kept in the dark muddy waters.

This imbalance is caused by our forgetting about the womb and its true purpose and power. In forgetting this, men too have forgotten how to relate fully to the feminine and how to be truly human, building walls of intellectual justification and anger around the wounds and holes that have been created by this separation.

The increase of intellectualization allied with a lack of actual womb experience means that women have been finding their centre of gravity in their head, disconnecting from their feminine centres and sexual energy.  As soon as a women’s centre of gravity shifts to honour the power of her sexual energy, sacredness and power of her womb and beauty of her heart, she becomes empowered, centred, grounded and present.

All life benefits when women come to love their bodies and live from their truth. For the womb is the generator and keeper of Life, the source of full feminine expression. The womb and ovaries are the light generators of the feminine, and creators of joy. When they are cleared, when they are healed of wounds, those many veils of disempowerment, miseducation, and repression, women may fully connect with their own feminine core in clarity, joy and the full, free expression of life force, sexual energy, the orgasmic energy of bliss.

It’s time to awaken and understand that we truly create our own reality….let your reality be bliss.

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